OVERVIEW OF MY HAIR FETISH

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In the U.S., the term is bangs. In the U.K., it's a fringe. What they both refer to are locks of hair right in the front, above the face and over the forehead. Short bangs have grown long enough to reach to the eyes. Longer bangs often hang into the eyes or are combed sideways to keep the extra length above the eyes. When bangs are combed sideways and let grow longer, eventually, they'll be so long that they will no longer stay above the eyes. The length and weight of the bangs causes them to begin cascading down into and over the eyes -- every so often at first, then more and more frequently. . If the bangs are styled downwards instead of sideways, then eventually they'll grow long enough to hang down well past the eyes and into the face. The longer they get, the more likely they are to drape over one or both eyes and obscure vision there.

A good looking boy with an extremely long bang or fringe is a big turn-on for me -- especially when his hair is shaggy and floppy enough so that it occasionally falls in his eyes or hangs over his face. When this happens, he'll be motivated to get it out of his way again -- by flipping it or tossing it back up out of his eyes or to one side out of his face. For me, hair that moves around like this is by far the sexiest and most attractive. I've gone into detail about why it's a turn on for me and why I find it especially hot when a young guy's hair dangles down over his eyes where it'll hang until he decides to move it out of his way. This is a full cycle of movement for his hair -- down and then back up (fall-hang-flip). If his attempt to flip it up fails, he'll use his fingers to swipe or push his hair, positioning it to stay to the side of his face or above his eyes. But the longer his bangs get, the less able they are to stay in place and the more frequently they'll fall down again, restarting this movement cycle.

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SHAGGY, FLOPPY HAIR IN MOTION: FALLING AND GETTING FLIPPED

Yes, hair in motion like this is a real turn on for me. So one of my goals here is to find one or more boys willing to grow their hair in a style and length that causes this to happen a lot. If a boy's bangs are too short, his hair won't fall down in his face at all -- or if it does, then not often enough. But as his bangs grow, they will start to fall more. Each time my boy flips or pushes his hair out of his eyes and face, he gets a time-out in having to deal with his hair while his hair stays in position out of his face, up or to the side. But as his bangs grow longer and longer, his break time steadily shortens, until after maybe several months, it is no more -- meaning that eventually his hair won't stay where it's positioned even for short periods -- so that break time is gone. Instead, more and more, his hair will be flopping down and hanging in his face and over his eyes. When bangs get too long, attempts to keep them out of his face will become increasingly futile. Eventually, he'll have to resign himself to deal with hair that's always hanging down and swinging and flopping around in his face and hiding his eyes.

So I want boy(s) who will grow their hair out full, shaggy and floppy and with long bangs -- boys who think their hair looks really good like that -- and who like it that I think so too. I want them to enjoy how beautiful their hair is getting all the while we grow it out. I want them to enjoy the free, wild, shaggy floppiness of it. I'd love it if they could enjoy playing with their hair as it gets longer and floppier -- tossing and flipping it around. Playing with it as it hangs down and dangles in front of their face. I want boys willing to find the longest possible length where it will still stay positioned up and out of the face long enough to make it worth the effort of flipping it when it falls. I want to find the style and length of each boy's bangs that provokes the most frequent and dramatic hair movement -- the most fall-hang-flip cycles per hour. Boys with hair in near constant motion like this would be a beautiful and erotic sight. It's one I want to see.

I want to play with the length of each boy's hair in various ways. I'd look for that perfect length of each boy's bangs so that their hair's full fall-hang-flip cycle occurs most regularly and frequently. Then I'll probably have my boy's keep their bangs at length (the max hair cycle length) for a while -- to see how they deal with the constant intensity of it. But eventually we may want to experiment with even longer, heavier bangs that when flipped or pushed, won't stay up -- they immediately fall back down. When bangs grow past the max hair cycle length they end up spending most or all their time hanging and dangling about in the face, perhaps covering one eye much of the time and sometimes both eyes.

I will be watching for the many ways both subtle and significant that my boys will make in how they move their bodies, hold their heads, how they change positions, get up, sit down -- all to deal with the evolving demands of dealing with their hair as it gets longer, floppier and much more in the way. There will be ways they adjust to seeing out and to eating and drinking with their hair hanging in their faces at different lengths. At some point they will have to deal with their hair as a constant presence in their face, always in their way, always obscuring their vision to some degree.

While my boys are dealing with the demands of their hair in these different phases, they'll be doing it with hair that's beautifully long, sexy and sensuous -- fun to look at and fun to play with. Long, shaggy, floppy, flowing, wild, natural and free. Along with the demands of their growing hair for more effort and attention from them, my boys will also be getting to enjoy increasingly gorgeous, enviable hair. Hopefully they will find creative, fun ways to play with this long hair and amusing ways to show it off -- taking advantage of the swinging, flowing, dancing and whipping and tossing about that's going to be happening already. I hope my boys will look at this hair adventure as a wonderful expression of their own youthful vibrance.

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BANGS TO SUFFER AND DEAL WITH

But no matter how much fun they might have with it, we also know that each boy's hair style will require a lot of effort and attention. In fact, it will be very demanding. Constantly demanding. All this hair flopping about, always getting in the way, obstructing vision, getting sucked into my boys' mouths, always having to be moved back, tossed, flicked, pushed away -- never ending, never stopping. So no matter how much fun he might have with it, there will also be times he's going to get annoyed, bothered and really tired of it -- as the longer it gets, the more it flops around in his face -- more annoying, more tedious.

Now I'm going to posit that there's a 'productive' use for this hair suffering. Since we know that there's going to be suffering, let's make it one of the things we play with by consciously incorporating elements of sadism and/or masochism with our fetish. I talk about the S/M possibilities here. I mention it a bit in the next section, but that's it on this page since I don't want to repeat it all here -- though I definitely want to go there.

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CONTROL OVER MY BOYS APPEARANCE

In all of these fetishes, I'd ideally like to find boys willing to let me take full control over their appearance. If I obtain control we can play the sadism game, otherwise we'll be playing the masochism game. If my boy cedes control of his appearance to me, we can take the annoyance, bother and suffering and play with it as sadism. He'll be the suffering victim and I'll be the sadist who makes him deal with all of this, and who finds dastardly new ways to make him deal with it even more. But if he can't bring himself to cede control to me, it means that he will still be in charge of his own hair and if he's into it, he can play with the suffering as masochism -- as something he's forcing on himself.

Either way, sadism or masochism is a way to perversely 'enjoy the punishment'. If I play the sadist, it'll be my job to push punishment or some kind of 'pain' front and center -- and to make my boys accutely aware that it's me that's doing it to them. For example, if my boy ceded full control over his appearance to me, and he had been used to putting on a cap to control his hair while engaged in certain activities, I could play the sadist and intensify his hair fall/flip cycle by forbidding him to use gels, hair sprays, hair nets, caps, hats, headbands -- anything that would keep his hair static and in place. And thus take away from him those things which could give him a break from the tedium and annoyance of hair slapping around in his face and blotting out his vision. I will have sadistically eliminated his ability to catch a break from dealing with all that hair. Sadistic, yes! And to work, it would require a boy willing to play victim to my villain.

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I WANT MY BOY TO BE A BOY WHO HAS LONG HAIR

I should state that in all of this, I want to play with boys as boys who have long hair and not as girls. Androgynous looks on boys are great, but drag or cross-dressing (while great too), just isn't what I'm going for here. I like females, but I'm not erotically attracted to them. That said, I do know, however, that gender roles are more fluid than just 'boy' and 'girl' and I'm open to that. So if you identify another way but are still interested in this then let's talk.

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WHAT KIND OF BOY MIGHT BE INTO THIS?

I'm guessing that boys I find will already know that they look good in long, floppy hair -- that it can look really sexy on them. They will be open to having fun with playing along and finding out just how extreme they can grow their hair. And they know that along with the fun, beauty, sexiness and glamour of it, there will also be some annoyance and inconvenience to it. Maybe they're up for seeing how much of that kind of suffering they can deal with before it overpowers the fun of it. Mayve they can even get into the S/M eroticism of suffering for the sake of beauty or of being a victim to fashion.

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WIGS FOR FLOPPY HAIR

All that I've said above about long, floppy hair is true. However, if you don't have long hair and still want to play, there are still possibilities. I love to use wigs on my boys who want to play with shaggy, floppy hair, but don't have that hair yet -- or who maybe never will. If you're willing to put on one of my many extreme floppy and in-your-face wigs and play that boy for me -- I'm all for that. And even if you're interested in growing your hair out, wigs can still handle the 'extreme' play in the meantime until your hair gets there. So if you don't have enough hair right now, but you're still intrigued by hair play like this, then talk with me about playing with wigs.

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THAT'S IT -- NOW MORE DETAILS

So I want a boy who can enjoy the beautiful, sexy look of this style but who can also handle the suffering that such a beautiful style demands. Ideally, my boy will embrace the S/M of it: the erotic thrill of seeing how he suffers as a result of being forced (by me or by himself) to maintain the hot look he gets from such sexy, beautiful hair -- the S/M of being made to suffer for the sake of fashion and beauty. I certainly intend to embrace and enjoy it!

That's it in its most succinct form. More details and explanations follow in the pages below.

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