About Me

I'm a tall (6'4"), gay older guy (early 60's) living in San Diego, California, USA. I've got some fetishes and this site is all about them.

In relation to what I'm looking for here, I guess you'd call me a 'daddy' or even a 'grandpa'. But I could also enjoy being a teacher, coach, director, mentor and/or friend to a boy (or possibly, a couple of boys) looking for some kinky fun along with some guidance or help. Beyond that, I could also play dominant to a submissive boy, sadist to a boy wanting some kinky suffering, or keeper to a boy willing to be my pet. I'm looking for a 'creative' relationship with a boy who has a kinky imagination and a good sense of humor ... someone who's honest, good hearted and has a willingness to explore and play. Ideally, this boy will also be somewhat exhibitionistic and narcisistic (enough to know how to enjoy showing off, but not so much as to be unbearable). A kinky sadistic or masochistic streak could come in handy too. Oh, and did I say creative and imaginative? Yes that would be great!

Yes, I want a boy who can get into playing with me around at least some (hopefully all) of the fetish stuff I mention here, but one who also realizes that building a good future also requires attending to other important aspects of life and he's willing to give them their due (be it with education, work, or whatever). Of course, I will guide and assist in any of this where I'm able and it makes sense for us both. So even though this site is almost exclusively about kinky play and fetish activity, there are many more unstated, yet important aspects to life and relationship which will be addressed, worked out and agreed upon, but not here. In the meantime, if you're interested or if you have questions, start a discussion with me!

Some might end this with a statement like: 'contact me with pix and I'll send you some of me' -- but that would be mean, right? Instead, I'm going to post a bunch of pictures of me solo doing some of my crazy fetish things. You'll notice that I like creating costumes and that (per the fetish theme here) these outfits are going to be tight, with footwear that's either sleek, tight and form fitting or loose, revealing the shape of the foot. Since I rarely have guys hanging around my place who've got long hair, I've collected plenty of wigs cut to extreme floppy and in-your-face styles. Yes, I like playing with wigs -- especially when they're on other guys who don't have long hair but who are willing to humor me and pretend that they do. On myself I wear them to see how they might perform when worn by others in various situations. I am under no illusion that I'm especially good looking in such hair, but it is fun nonetheless. Besides, who else am I going to use as a model for cutting and styling them? All the guys who have been open to playing with wigs have so far not had the patience to wear one while it's being styled. So I use myself and then play with it to see how well it cooperates (flips easily? falls in face enough? has enough heft to require some effort? etc). I have had several guys willing to play in tight gear and augment it with a floppy haired wig -- something that can be very hot -- sometimes for both of us -- but certainly for me. With a guy who knows how to fling it and toss it, it's nearly as hot as the real thing. So here there are pix of me in various costumes and tight outfits, various footgear and floppy-style wigs.

In case you're wondering, yes, I've also taken zillions of pix of the many guys playing with me dressed up in very sexy tight gear, with most of them also in one kind or another of sexy footgear and many humoring me with a floppy haired wig. However, those pix aren't here. On this page, as you've seen, it's just me. But I've posted several pix of several of my playmates in gear elsewhere, on another site, not this one. If you want to see them, just ask and I'll tell you how to find them.

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