IDEAL FETISH RULES FOR HAIR
Summary
- This page talks about relinquishing control of your hair to me.
- I would dictate everything about it: length, style, color, what gels, shampoos, you use, etc.
- Yes, I would make you grow your bangs out very, very long
- You would not be allowed to wear a hat, cap, headband, hairspray etc. -- anything that keeps hair in place (except your hands and fingers).
- Exceptions can be made for when safety dictates otherwise.
- Ideally these would be 24/7 rules -- applying everyday, all the time.
- But sometimes ideal just doesn't make itself available, so I'm open to compromise and could envision that rules here would apply only some of the time (but always whenever I'm around).
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Details
Appearance: My fetishes here require you to relinquish control of your appearance to me.
Here we'll be discussing the part that relates to your hair -- your hair style, cut and length.
By relinquishing control, I mean to include all the decisions about what you can put in your hair, on your hair or around your hair and your head.
All gels, hair sprays or any other chemical substance used to keep hair in place will not be allowed.
Hair restraints such as headbands, hair nets, and even caps and hats will also not be allowed.
Exceptions can be made for legitimate safety reasons such as while driving a car.
My boys look much better with no cap
Way, way hotter because now their hair can get down in their face.
Wind is my friend when I'm around a floppy haired boy with no headgear.
But other than that – even in a windstorm or more likely, while riding in an open convertible with the wind blowing his hair all over his face – hats and caps are not to be worn.
The reason, obviously, is that I want my boy's hair to move – not stay fixed in place like a statue.
His hair should move – as much as possible, whenever possible.
Even when it’s fully out of control and whipping his face with unrelenting, attention-demanding slaps.
Even when it's obliterating his vision, requiring his hands do sentry duty to see out or to keep it from getting all wet from being sucked into his mouth
There is no “off time”, “time out” or “rest time” for that hair in motion.
This means that at those times when he's least in the mood to deal with hair flopping around his face, he'll have hair flopping around his face.
Non-stop hair flopping around his face will most likely get annoying and tiresome – and as it does so, it will be adding a substantial dose of the ‘suffering’ required to maintain this hot, exotic, extreme floppy haired look.
Oh, how erotic all that hair looks as it hangs down in his face, ever longer and longer.
And the longer and sexier it gets the more demanding and frequent are the efforts needed to deal with it all and to keep at least minimal sight lines open.
It's in this 'suffering' to look good -- where we'll be toying with the S/M built into this extreme hair style.
The effort and hassle of dealing with all this hair will be one of the basic elements underlying our S/M play.
That said, I still know that not everyone will be able to live with this kind of situation full-time.
So if a boy absolutely must have some time out from dealing with his hair like this to avoid going crazy or worse, giving up and backing out, then I would consent to allowing caps and hats when he's away from me (at work, school, elsewhere – anywhere I’m not).
But when he's around me, no caps, hats, gels – nothing external keeping his hair in place.
Adhering to this rule only when he's around me will obviously lessen the intensity of the S/M he’ll be dealing with, but if it has to be that way, so be it.
But for the full S/M experience of this hair style, a boy would have to keep to the rule all the time and resist ‘cheating’ even when he could.
Elsewhere on this site I talk more about playing S/M with hair.
It mostly about the erotic thrill of seeing boys with amazing sexy hair being put through various scenes (real and play) that cause that hair to repeatedly drop, fall forward, cascade or pour down over his eyes and face.
And of all the attention it demands – again and again and again. And the many ways of playing with that.