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HUMILIATION AND S/M WITH TIGHT GEAR

There are lots of ways to play with humiliation using tight gear or to get into aspects of S/M using tight gear. What works will mostly depend on the particular boy and how he responds to being in tight gear.

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Sometimes No Underwear

At times my boy will not be permitted to wear underwear when he goes out. Perhaps a thong or cock ring, but nothing more. Many of his pants will be super low rise, so without underwear, when he crouches, bends down or sits, he'll be revealing his ass crack. At times, I'll make him do chores that way – indoors and out. I'll make him go out in public where he might have to bend or sit. Or I'll make him pick up things -- throw things down and make him pick them up -- and cause him to show off his ass crack while doing it. With super-low jeans, each time he gets up or when he walks a little he will pull up on his pants because they naturally want to work their way down. He tugs up but they never go up far enough, so he tugs up again and again – an action that emphasizes to anyone watching just how low rise his pants are – and how he can never get them up high enough to stay. They'll never be able to fully hide his ass when he has to crouch, bend, sit or get on or off the floor.

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Placement and State of Cock and Balls Can Be Discerned In Tight Gear

My boy will often have to go out in public in super-tight pants with his boy parts crammed into pants that weren't designed for that equipment to be there. Since the pants are unrelentingly tight, he will have had to cram them in, usually with a resulting bulge that indicates what and where. How does he deal with that kind of sexy showing off. Everyone who sees him will stare at his crotch as it will be presenting to inspection just how he packed it all in. At times the outline of his cock and balls will be hinted at. Other times their shapes will be clearly defined. His cock may present as tucked-away and demure or more vibrant and alive. How does he handle these looks -- these judgements? Will he pretend he's not on display? Will he strut about and put on a show appropriate to the erotic boldness? Will he try to hide or mask it? Will he make excuses for it -- apologize for it? Or will he learn to 'take it for granted' or be proud of it or learn to enjoy showing off with it. How does his walk, talk, and general presentation change when the gear he wears makes his basket the main attraction. How does he deal with belittling comments, meanness, gay slurs, and hate speech and possibly a hate crime? I will be observing the way his personality develops in situations like this. If certain scenes are particularly difficult or embarrassing, the villain in me will be taking note -- and possibly going for repeat performances.

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Is he turned on? Nobody Has To Guess

In outfits as tight at these, any possibility of hiding or concealing a hardon are next to nill. My boy must also deal with having his cock's physical reaction to erotic excitement on display, visible to all. His cock is packed into a 'basket' that presents like a gentle outward curve in his frontal crotch. At other times, it's grown significantly larger and roundly protrudes out in a way that demands and attracts urgent attention -- on display right in front, mid-center, hard to avoid, impossible to not notice. How does my boy deal with having his erotic barometer on display like that? Does he get teased? Embarrassed? Proud? Does he compensate in any way in how he acts, talks, walks, stands? Dressing differently is not one of his options here, so does he find others? Do some people tease and toy with him to see if they can 'get a rise out of him'?

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Super-low Jeans and Tights Expose Your Ass Crack

When my boy is forced to wear super low-cut tight gear, he'll find that it wants to work its way down off his hips, ass and crotch area requiring him to be constantly pulling them back up as far as they'll go -- but they're 'super low-rise', which by design will never fit high enough. To enhance the 'drama' when wearing low cut gear like this, I'll not permit him to wear anything underneath (or at most just a thong). So when he crouches, bends over, or even just sits, the back of his low-rise wasteband (never high up on his hips to begin with), will naturally pull down lower -- exposing the beginning of his ass crack. Undeterred, they'll pull lower still in back rewarding onlookers with full-on ass crack views, and in front, pubes leading to those boy parts. If he's got a hot ass -- this can be a very hot scene.



How does he deal with this? Does he think his ass is hot enough to star in such a spectacle? Or does he want to avoid this by finding reasons to never crouch, bend or sit? Or he does, but with his back against a wall to hide his exposed ass? Or does he make a big deal of it by wrapping somethng around his waste as a cover up? Maybe he pretends it isn't happening -- or that it's just unavoidable and doesn't matter (to sober, sane people). Does he feel embarrased or like a victim? Or maybe, does he possibly feel sexy? How his attitudes and reactions change over time will be very interesting to watch.

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Vibrators, Remote Controlled Devices

I will have a boy wear remote control vibrator devices or remote electro stim devices. And when he's not expecting it (especially when we're out in public), shock, stimulate, shake, tickle him via remote control. How does he react? What does this do to the state of his cock?

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Touch

If his cock and balls are packed tightly and quite obviously just nanometers under the surface of his jeans, then touch, stroke or tap the surface of his pants there. He'll feel it intensely and immediately. “Accidentally” brush against it lightly – or cause something to land there or roll over there -- all sorts of ways to stimulate his most sensitive of areas.

Or be mean, and as you walk by, thump his balls. When balls are extended and pressed outwards, even a little thump can be very painful. Oh, did I accidentally tap your balls? He will really feel it – and the pain there can be sharp and momentarily intense, but it fades fast. How does he react? Are you doing it to torment him? What does he do? He’s also sensitive to hot and cold there. Ice cube? Hot drink? Be careful and not get him so angry at you that he sends some pain your way. All this, of course, is up for grabs – it's vulnerable territory in bondage when he's restrained and unable to keep you from doing whatever you want wherever you want.

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Pain, CBT

Note that anything pain-related can be done only if it works for the boy. Keep that in mind for any of the 'evil' ideas described on this page (or anywhere else for that matter). If it's not ok with him, then it's a no-go.

You can do all sorts of evil things if you’re a sadist. Or even if you’re not a sadist, but your boy likes feeling pain, and you've mutually defined the limits, etc., then even if you're the saintliest guy around, you can now enjoy torturing your boy into pain.

A well presented, bulging crotch is practically asking for somebody to do something to it.


You can be evil – you can accidentally dab some Ben Gay deep heating rub ointment against the fabric on his tight outfit that presses against his cock amd balls. Dab it on that fabric that's pressed tight to him and it’ll soak right through and onto those most sensitive areas.



Say, your boy is showing off, so he must want to be seen. If I’m someone who doesn’t like that, I could justify hurting him for it – you asked for it you show-off pervert! If I know you want and crave that kind of punishment and pain, then I can give you the sensations you’re looking for and feel totally angelic doing so – ok, maybe not angelic.



In circumstances like that I’d et my inner devil out to enjoy being ‘evil’ – which is what devils do. Besides devils are the ones that run around in sexy hot red tights while holding pitchforks to poke you with. While angels have those fluffy feathers and stuff which is not nearly as hot and sexy. So yes, you'd better let your hot devil (that inner sadist of yours) out for a bit and give the angel a rest.

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Pee Humiliation

Keep your boy in bondage a long time and don’t let him go to the bathroom. Eventually he’ll have to piss his pants. How does he feel about this? Is it an embarrassment? Or is he a pig who gets into it? As to whether it goes beyond that is a matter of what else you and he might be into.

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Amusements With Two or More Boys

If you have two boys in bondage. One interesting long-term position has each one’s head almost touching the other one’s crotch. Each is restrained with their legs spread apart and open. Can’t get away from the other – can’t quite get at the other. But can watch what excitement the other feels. Perhaps each one can run remote control devices on the other. He stims you – you can stim him. Maybe there are also tasks each has to be doing with punishment coming to the one who performs the worst. Each competing with the other can try to disrupt the other one and try to ignore being disruped by the other.

Two boys in bondage with hands nowhere near their crotches. You get them excited, but all they can do is press their crotches up against something – maybe each other’s crotch – or each other’s face or feet or something. With enough excitement they’ll discover frottage and cum just by pressing against their cocks. You can make them do that -- perhaps making it happen right in their gear.

Or perhaps position each boy's face to watch the other’s crotch. Their entire bodies are far enough away to be unable to touch. With no hands, no ass, no mouth – just rubbing and pressing against something, they try to cum in their tight outfits while just looking at each other.

When working with two boys, you can run boy-vs-boy contests. For example, cram them both into super-low, super-tight gear (especially if it's not designed to accommodate male anatomy). The winner of one contest is the boy seen first packing a huge and obvious hardon. In another, the winner is the one who avoids getting hard while doing whatever necessary to get the other boy as hard as possible. These contests could be run with both boys out in public all the while.

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Tight Pants for Punishment

If a boy has been bad and needs a more intense punishment, make him put on crotch crushing tight pants. Make him wear a cock ring at the same time. The greater cock and ball presence of the cock ring is derived from his boy parts all getting pushed upward against the downward pressume of his tight pants. If he's wearing super low rise, girls jeans that have no place for boy parts, they’ll press tight right up against his perineum and balls and cock. They're low rise, so he has to pull them way up – and the more up he pulls them the more they press up against his balls and cock. He can move his boy parts up to the front, but they pants are tight in all directions, so wherever he positions them, they'll be pushing outward against pants that press tightly and relentlessly inward. It's a tight squeeze that wants to crush anything underneath into the flattest form possible. Of course, even under such pressure, should any of his boy parts swell up and demand more space, it will be accommodated -- but grudgingly and only under even more form-molding pressure. Pressure on balls is tolerated for only so long. Within a hour, balls that are relentlessly squeezed like this start to get tired of being smashed. After two hours, they start to ache. Longer, and they’re really aching. Punish him by having him wear these out in public for several hours at a time. Watch his face as he has to put up with the unending, throbbing hurt in his balls. Since he’s in public, he's gotta just take it. He can’t change, can’t take them off. Nothing else to put on. Will he grab at his balls, try adjusting them, pull at them? Unless he can get them out of these ball crushers he’s not going to find any relief. He must have done something really bad to warrant this kind of ball torture.

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